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A father holds a newborn aloft. And says, simply: Mine. Not a legal declaration. Not a performance for the room. Not a sentimental moment for the photo album. A spiritual commitment. The kind of statement that opens something in the child that nothing else can open. One word. It does more than most fathers realize.

We talk about fatherhood as a noun. A status. A fact of biology. You became a father the moment the child arrived, and that fact is permanent — it's right there on the birth certificate.